CANCER

Sun ☀️ Moon 🌙 Rising 🏹 Venus ♀Placements

RELATIONSHIPS & LOVE

If you are in a relationship, the Death (R) is a strong indicator that you are resistant to a change in your relationship. You may be holding on to a relationship that has long since run its course because you feel dependent on your partner or are terrified of loneliness. Or you may be staying with a partner who you no longer love out of a sense of obligation. It can also indicate that a relationship that you thought was finished long ago could resurface and rekindle. If you are single, Death reversed is a strong indicator that you need to let go of negative behavior patterns in order to bring something positive into your love life. If you are in a relationship, The Moon can indicate that you may be feeling uncertain or insecure. If your relationship looks fine to the outside world, The Moon is saying that things are not as perfect as they seem. There may be small miscommunications in the relationship or there could be a lot of arguments where old issues or insecurities coming back to the surface. It can also signify deception, but don’t jump to conclusions. If you are single, The Moon can indicate deception around you or that you may be being conned. If you are dating, be mindful that this person’s intentions may not be as they seem or you may not have all the facts about them yet. Sometimes deception doesn’t necessarily have to have malicious intent or motives however, hiding the truth to spare someone’s feelings is never a sustainable situation. There are some pieces of information that has yet to reveal itself. The Moon wants you to stay calm and wait until what’s meant to be known becomes clearer. The Queen of Cups (R) is a warning not to let your insecurities or lack of trust affect your relationship. If you have been acting clingy or needy you need to get back control of your emotions before you push your partner away. Alternately, if you have been rushing around trying to keep your partner happy, you need to remember to look after your own needs first or you will burn out. Try to find the emotional balance and do not allow others to take advantage of your good nature. If you are single, the Queen of Cups (R) shows that you are not in a good place emotionally right now. This may attract people who will seek to take advantage of your vulnerability.

Do you find yourself always taking the role of provider, nurturer and supporter in your relationship? The Queen of Cups (R) can be a signal that you’re putting much more effort into the relationship than your partner. Way more. You may even occasionally feel more like a parent than a lover. The balance between the two of you must be restored. On the other hand, you may see that the emotional environment between you or your partner may feel as though you are walking on eggshells, never knowing when the next argument will happen again. It’s important to take some time out to deal with any issues and find your own inner balance before you date again.

CONTEXT

The 8 of Cups indicates that there is some soul-searching that needs to be done about whether your partnership is one that truly fulfills you. You and your partner have been going through a rough time, whether that’s in how you relate to each other or just in life in general, recent events have left you sapped of all energy. Whether the relationship is new or you’ve been together for years the 8 of Wands (R) represents a lack of energy, excitement, sex and/or passion. The relationship is not moving forward the way you or your partner would like it to as one or both of you is hesitating. You may feel like giving up and calling it quits. The 9 of Wands signals that you will recognize that the love you want will require inner work, self-improvement, and sacrifices. The realization maybe slowly coming to you and you are now preparing for it. Give your lover the benefit of the doubt as the two of you go through this period, and make sure to continue communicating. On the positive side, it is likely that you are about to take a big step step forward when it comes to your romantic life. Are you about to propose? Or suggest to your partner that you want to take that next steps together? The 9 of Wands hints that if you do the work, you’ll be successful. If you are single, the 9 of Wands indicates that you are still wounded from past relationships that didn’t work out how you wanted. It may feel like you will never get past this, but you are. Make sure the next person you allow into your life is worthy of your love and guard your heart until they’ve earned your trust.

SOLUTION

You and your partner are meant to weather the burdens of life together, but one of you may still find it difficult to be vulnerable. If this is you, trust your partner and give them the chance to help you. For others of you, you are beating a dead horse by pushing forward in your relationship and putting lots of work in but getting nowhere. If you are single, the 10 of Wands (R) suggests time for dating or meeting someone new and allow more fun, spontaneity and excitement into your life.

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ROMANCE ANGEL

Separation

Time apart from your partner is on the horizon.

ANGEL ANSWER

Be Assertive

This situation calls for you to take matters into your own hands! You must get clear on your personal feelings and then pursue the fulfillment of your desires with courage and self-confidence. Ask for what you need without ordering down your request in order to satisfy others. Remember that sing to your own needs is nothing to apologize for. Set boundaries with those around you in order to create a safe and fear environment. Tailor your actions so that you earn the respect from others you deserve and then move forward.

Cards Pictured: Death (R), Queen of Cups (R), The Moon, 9 of Wands, 8 of Wands (R), 8 of Cups & 10 of Wands (R).